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Alessio Tonato

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Alessio Tonato

United Kingdom

Gentle, practical therapy for change

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  • Awareness focused
  • Body informed
  • Trilingual counselling

About Alessio

Alessio Tonato is a psychotherapeutic counsellor registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). He draws on seven years of experience helping people navigate stress, anxiety, depression and relationship or intimacy-related issues. Alessio works in English, French and Italian and focuses on practical ways to support change in work and personal life.

He uses a holistic approach that aims to raise awareness and invite honest dialogue. Sessions are conversational and experiential, giving space to notice patterns in feelings, thoughts and behaviour. Alessio helps people identify which habits no longer serve them and develop alternative ways of coping.

In practical terms he pays attention to how emotions show up in the body and in relationships. This can make it easier to spot avoidant or dependent patterns, issues around attachment, and problems linked to abandonment or control. He also supports people dealing with anger, guilt, shame and the aftermath of infidelity or separation.

Work with Alessio often includes mindfulness exercises and body-based noticing alongside talking. The aim is to help people become more flexible and confident when facing change. He frames each session around the client’s life goals and what is realistic for them right now.

People who prefer a gentle but active style may find his approach helpful. He encourages curiosity, small experiments and practical steps that can be tried between sessions. To begin, clients select the Start Therapy button and complete a short matching questionnaire.

How Alessio’s approaches translate to online work

Alessio uses Attachment-Based Therapy to look at how early relationship patterns influence current connections. This approach helps people understand trust, closeness and commitment issues in everyday life. Mindfulness Therapy is used to develop present-moment awareness and reduce reactivity, which can help with anxiety and stress. Somatic Therapy brings attention to bodily sensations and movement, helping people notice how feelings show up physically and learn new ways to respond.

Finding the best approach is part of the process. Alessio works collaboratively to decide which methods fit a person’s needs and goals. He will adapt techniques across sessions so the work stays practical and relevant to what the client wants to change.

Confirm the available session formats before booking so you know what is offered. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions around work or family life and reduce travel time. It also allows for shorter check-ins on busy days and makes it possible to use mindful practices and body-awareness exercises during normal routines. Registered or accredited professionals like Alessio aim to help clients make progress while keeping sessions manageable and aligned with everyday life.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesIntimacy-related issuesSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseAnger managementCareer difficultiesCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPhobiasPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyMindfulness TherapySomatic Therapy

Experience

7+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English, French, Italian

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of issues does Alessio specialise in?

He works with stress, anxiety, depression and a wide range of relationship and intimacy-related concerns. Additional areas include trauma and abuse, anger, career changes and coping with life transitions.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

His style is conversational and experiential, combining dialogue with awareness-building and practical exercises. Sessions often include noticing bodily responses and trying small experiments between meetings.

What is his background and experience?

He has seven years of clinical experience and works as a psychotherapeutic counsellor. His work focuses on helping people increase awareness and create new patterns that fit their current life goals.

What credential does he hold and where is he based?

He is BACP registered and operates from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English, French and Italian.

Can international clients work with him?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are fees and payments handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

What are the first steps to begin therapy?

Choose the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to the therapist’s availability.

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