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Dilnia Horton

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Dilnia Horton

United Kingdom

Practical counselling for men's wellbeing and relationships

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  • Relationship support
  • Eating and body image
  • Parenting pressures

About Dilnia

Dilnia Horton is a counsellor who focuses on men's wellbeing and relationship concerns. She works with people struggling with self-esteem, eating issues, parenting pressures and family conflict. She creates a welcoming space where thoughts and feelings can be shared without judgement.

Dilnia has 13 years of experience and holds BACP, which is the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy. She offers straightforward support for day-to-day worries and longer standing patterns that sap energy and confidence. Her approach is practical and down-to-earth.

In sessions she uses a mix of methods tailored to each person. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy looks at thinking and behaviour patterns and helps people test small changes. Emotionally-Focused Therapy helps people notice and name feelings that affect relationships. Mindfulness work builds skills to calm the mind and reduce reactivity.

Dilnia also draws on psychodynamic ideas to understand how past experiences shape present relationships and self-image. She helps people make links between old patterns and current problems, so they can try different ways of relating.

Sessions are offered in English and Kurdish. Her practice is in the United Kingdom and she does not take international clients. Prospective clients should follow the service booking steps to match with her and arrange sessions that suit them.

How therapeutic approaches work online

CBT, or Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, focuses on spotting unhelpful thoughts and testing small behavioural changes to improve mood and relationships. It is often used for anxiety, low mood and behaviour patterns that keep problems going.

Emotionally-Focused Therapy centres on identifying and naming emotions that shape relationship patterns. It helps people express feelings more clearly and build different ways of relating that reduce hurt and conflict.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences and what feels most useful. Together they decide which methods to try and adjust these as progress is made.

Confirm the available session formats before booking, as this profile does not list specific options. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It can also help people work in a familiar setting while trying out new ways of communicating and handling difficult feelings.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsEating disordersParenting issues

Also works with

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic Therapy

Experience

13+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English, Kurdish

Frequently asked questions

What issues does she help with?

Dilnia works with concerns including relationship and family difficulties, eating and body-image issues, parenting strain and low self-esteem. She also addresses related topics such as attachment, abandonment and divorce.

What is her general therapeutic style?

Her style is practical and collaborative, combining structured techniques and reflective conversation. She aims to help people make small, manageable changes and understand patterns that keep problems going.

How much experience does she have?

She has 13 years of professional experience working with a range of relationship and personal concerns. That experience informs a flexible approach to different problems.

What credentials and location apply?

Dilnia holds BACP, the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy credential, and practices in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and Kurdish.

Can international clients work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are fees and payment arranged?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to work with her?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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