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James Polledri

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James Polledri

United Kingdom

Gentle, practical counselling for men

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  • Stress and anxiety
  • Trauma and grief
  • Confidence building

About James

James Polledri is a counsellor based in the United Kingdom who helps people manage stress, anxiety, relationship problems, trauma and abuse, grief and self-esteem difficulties. He has 13 years of professional experience and holds BACP registration. James aims to make the first step into therapy easier by offering a calm, non-judgemental space where people can talk about what matters to them.

He listens to the specific concerns each person brings and works with them to set simple, realistic goals. Conversations focus on understanding what keeps problems going and on practical ways to change everyday patterns. James uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques and adapts his approach to each person’s needs and life circumstances.

James has supported people facing loss, low confidence, motivation problems and the aftermath of sexual assault and abuse. He also helps with post-traumatic stress, social anxiety, Seasonal Affective Disorder and questions about life purpose. His practice includes attention to men’s issues and to autistic adults seeking clearer strategies for coping.

Sessions are conversational and aimed at building skills people can use between meetings. James encourages reflection and action in equal measure so progress can be noticed week to week. He keeps work focused and practical while remaining respectful of sensitive material.

People who choose James usually want straightforward help to feel better in daily life. He asks new clients to complete a short matching questionnaire and then to schedule sessions according to his availability.

Approaches that support change online

James uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques to help people address common problems. One approach focuses on identifying unhelpful thinking and learning practical ways to challenge and change those thoughts, which can reduce anxiety and low mood. Another approach centres on processing distressing experiences through paced, supportive conversation and building skills to manage post-traumatic stress and overwhelming memories.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. James will talk with each person about their goals, preferences and what has or hasn’t helped before. Together they decide which techniques to try and review progress as therapy continues, adjusting the plan when needed.

If you are considering online sessions, check the available formats before booking to confirm what is offered. Online work can make it easier to fit counselling into a busy week, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It also means people can join from wherever they are located within the United Kingdom, while practical arrangements such as scheduling and subscription billing are explained when you start.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Additional focus areas

Autism and Asperger SyndromeFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameLife purposeMen's issuesPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaYoung adult issues

Experience

13+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does James commonly help with?

He supports people with stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief and self-esteem problems. Additional areas include men’s issues, post-traumatic stress and social anxiety.

What is his therapeutic style like?

He offers a conversational, practical style that balances reflection with action. The focus is on understanding patterns and developing everyday skills to manage difficulties.

How much experience does he have?

James has 13 years of professional work experience in counselling and mental health support.

What credential does he hold and where is he based?

He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, abbreviated as BACP, and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are used in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can I work with him from another country?

He does not accept international clients at this time.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin therapy with him?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to his availability.

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