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Ryan Shelby Butler

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Ryan Shelby Butler

Arizona

Practical, values-driven counseling for men

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  • Men's wellbeing
  • Values-focused
  • Skill building

About Ryan

Ryan Shelby Butler is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) based in Arizona who focuses on men's wellbeing among other concerns. He draws on seven years of clinical experience and a background that combines counseling with leadership and higher education roles. Ryan aims to create straightforward, values-driven support for people facing stress, anxiety, depression, relationship struggles, addiction, grief, and related challenges.

Ryan earned a Master of Science in Professional Counseling and a Post-Graduate Degree in Christian Counseling from Grand Canyon University, along with earlier degrees in leadership and general studies. He has worked in higher education where counseling, advising, and program support were part of his role. This mix of experience shaped a practical, person-centered style.

In sessions he uses person-centered principles and solution-focused tools to help people set clear, realistic goals. He also draws from cognitive approaches and Dialectical Behavior Therapy techniques to teach skills for managing emotions and patterns of thinking. Attachment-based ideas inform how he talks about relationships and intimacy.

Ryan often integrates spiritual and meditative practices when clients want those elements included. He says clients bring the best knowledge of their own lives, and he helps turn that knowledge into steps forward. His work is intended for individuals aged 8 and up from various cultural backgrounds.

Outside of practice he spends time with family, serves in church leadership, and enjoys reading, writing, and the outdoors. To begin, he suggests people take a small first step and arrange an initial session to see if the fit feels right.

How Ryan Uses Different Approaches Online

Ryan often draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) to help people clarify what matters most to them and take small actions toward those values. ACT focuses on noticing unhelpful thoughts and committing to behavior that supports a meaningful life, which can help with anxiety, depression, and motivation.

He also uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to identify thought and behavior patterns that keep problems going and to practice concrete skills for change. CBT is useful for managing stress, anxiety, low mood, and habits connected to addiction or anger.

Attachment-Based Therapy ideas are part of how he talks about closeness and trust in relationships. That approach helps people see how their early relationships shape current patterns and supports work on intimacy-related issues.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Ryan will work with each person to decide which methods fit their goals and preferences, and he adapts the plan as progress is made.

Confirm the current online session options before booking. Once confirmed, online sessions can make it easier to fit counseling into work, family, and daily life because they reduce travel and allow more flexible scheduling. They can also support shorter check-ins or sessions that do not require being on camera, depending on what the therapist and client agree will work best.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

AddictionsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementCoping with life changesCoachingADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

7+ years

Credentials

Arizona

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems can Ryan help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, trauma and abuse, grief, relationship and family concerns, parenting, self-esteem, anger, ADHD, and related issues.

What is his general therapy style?

He uses a person-centered, solution-focused approach that emphasizes practical steps, skill teaching, and collaborative goal setting.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He has seven years of professional experience in counseling and related roles.

What credentials and region does he practice in?

He is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) practicing in Arizona.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with him?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with therapist location and availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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